Given my line of work, I often get the question- how long? It is always in reference to some form of suffering. How long will it take? How long will it take until I feel better? How long until I no …
The identity dance
I was reflecting recently about the differing opinions/perspectives on life after cancer (or any life threatening condition) and the role it plays in re-configuring our sense of self, our identity. …
My 5 favorite tools for coping with cancer
When I was diagnosed with cancer, I knew that I was going to be challenged to step up to the plate and face things that were going to test my endurance, my fears, my spirit, my hatred with being poked …
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For when you feel left behind
Have you ever had that experience of hearing some exciting news from a friend or loved one, and on one hand you are thrilled and yet on the other hand you feel somehow left behind? Or jealous? …
Why processing loss is VITAL for health
I remember I used to always challenge my math teachers about how the knowledge was actually going to be useful in realy life. As I have matured (ie directed my sassiness to more enjoyable …
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These are the stories that must be told, Part 2
Recently I was in the company of my cancer peers and their loved ones. It was an eclectic group of different cancers. Watching the group process unfold always feels like a gift. Each person …
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